From the Netherlands to Spain: What Personal Transformation Taught Me About Leadership

May 31, 2025 ∙ Chantal Poiesz
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A Personal Leap into the Unknown

I recently made a major life change:
I moved from the Netherlands to Spain.
It was a personal decision, but one that echoes the professional transformations I support as a coach and consultant for leaders and teams. Only this time, I was the one stepping into uncertainty.

A Dream Deferred — Until Now
For years, I’d written down “spend winters in Spain” as a dream.
I craved more outdoor living, a different pace, the Spanish rhythm of life.
But my house in the Netherlands was more than a place — it was part of my identity. Safe. Familiar. Mine.
That changed during a casual conversation with a friend. As we talked about life in Spain, I suddenly imagined letting go of my home.
And instead of fear, I felt calm.
That’s when I knew: holding on to safety was keeping me from something deeper I truly wanted.

When Courage Means Acting Without All the Answers
Soon came the practical questions:
“Where will you live?”
“What about work?”
My honest answer:
“I don’t know yet. I’ll figure it out.”
That’s what courage looks like to me:
Courage = Fear + Action
No, it hasn’t been perfect.
Because wherever you go, you bring yourself with you.
My new surroundings reflect my strengths and my blind spots. They both support and challenge me.

Why my theme for 2025 is “Deconstruct”


As I navigate this new chapter, I’ve chosen a guiding word for 2025: DECONSTRUCT.
It’s time to examine and release another layer of patterns and beliefs I’ve carried with me — even those that once served me. As it it time to unearth parts of me that are waiting to step into the world and into the light
Because transformation isn’t a one-time event. It’s an ongoing journey.

The Link to Leadership and Change
In my work, I often help leaders and teams let go of the known in order to step into the new. That space in-between — full of uncertainty — is where transformation happens.
But it’s hard to lead others through change if you’re not willing to lead yourself through it.
True leadership starts where certainty ends.
Whether it’s in your life or your organization, stepping into the unknown is the threshold to growth.

So I leave you with this:
– What change are you considering that requires letting go of something familiar?
– What’s calling you — even if you can’t fully name it yet?
– What are you truly longing for?

I’ve seen this again and again — in myself and in my clients:
Beneath the seemingly barren land of the Unknown, lies incredibly fertile ground for growth.
Are you ready to explore it?

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